Stumped - trying to automate accordion sitemap referencing tabbed multi-listings from other pages

Ok, maybe I'm being ambitious here.

Through your wonderful assistance months back, you helped me automate tabbed navigation using an accordion script, connected to multi-listings in the CMS. It works well!

Now, I'm trying to use the same accordion menu in the sitemap, referencing the title and links to these multi-listings from other pages.

My problems:

Accordion not working properly.
I believe it's my own mark-up issue, so I'm looking into it now. I initially brought over my accordion menu with record names from each multi-listing page. I disabled the tabbed class from each menu item, so the accordion function properly works. (Otherwise, that class will look for the tabbed content and won't display the sub-accordion tiers.)

**How do I reference and automate the direct links to each of these menu items?

An example of how this tabbed script works via direct links is: program.php?slider3=2

The tabs in the accordion menu reference the content in sequential order. (ie. the part "=2"). I need to somehow automate this number to correlate to the appropriate tab, but the conundrum is that the order of the tabs on each page have the ability to change, thus changing the sequential order number associated with the tabbed content.

I was looking into the record numbers, but they seem to correlate with the date the entry was updated, not to the sequential order of the entry. Anything I could use from the PHPadmin?

Any thoughts? I'm stumped.

Resolving this particular issue will also resolve my automation with breadcrumbs and glitches I have with my search engine. Please let me know.